In Loving Memory Of Gerald M. Szukiewicz

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May the peace of the Lord be with you.

Gerald M. Szukiewicz

May 21, 1940 – February 22, 2009

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22 responses to “In Loving Memory Of Gerald M. Szukiewicz

  1. Lauren in Oregon

    My condolences for your loss. Is this Pat’s brother who was in the hospital?

    May you be wraped in His comforting arms of love during this time.

    ———————————–
    Lauren, Yes this was Pat’s brother, Jerry.

  2. PrincessElaine

    Dear Ed and Pat,
    My deepest sympathies on the loss of Jerry. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Elaine

  3. Ann Wilson

    Pat and Ed,
    So sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers, thoughts and hugs are coming your way.

    Ann

  4. Kathie

    God will hold you thru this time of grief and the friends and family you have will care for you at this time. My deepest sympathy. Please give this poem to Pat for me. It is one that I have had with me since the loss of my first husband in 1977. It is always at my desk. For me it helped comfort. I hope it does her.

    Learn With Every Goodbye

    Unknown

    After a while, you learn the subtle difference

    between holding a hand and chaining a soul,

    And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning

    And company doesn’t mean security,

    And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts

    And presents aren’t promises,

    And you begin to accept your defeats

    With the grace of a woman,

    not the grief of a child,

    And learn to build all your roads on today

    Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,

    And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight

    And after a while, you learn That even sunshine burns if you get too much.

    So you plant your own garden

    and decorate your own soul,

    Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

    And you learn that you really can endure…

    That you really are strong

    And you really do have worth

    And you learn

    and learn…

    With every goodbye, you learn.

    Yours,

    Kathie Bennett

  5. Jane and Tom

    Our thoughts & prayers are with you and Pat in this difficult time. Here is a long-distance hug for both of you !!
    Love,
    Jane & Tom

  6. Princess Lori

    Please know that you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Remembering the good times will get you through; relying on prayer will sustain you.

    Hugs and love,
    Princess Lori and Tom

  7. We are very sorry for your lost.
    Sending a big hug for both of you
    Los Margarida

  8. Stephanie, Paul and AJ

    Pat and Ed,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jerry is at peace and in a wonderful place with no pain or suffering. Hold on to the wonderful memories you have with him. These will get you through.

    Hugs and Kisses

    Paul, Steph and AJ

  9. Bob and Emily

    Pat and Ed,

    You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very trying time — and always.

    Bob and Emily Means

  10. Peanuts

    Dear Pat and BIG ED,

    No kind words can ever take away your grief at a time like this, but know that Jack and I are thinking of you and praying that the Almighty will lessen your loss and grief more each day. If there is anything we can do to help, don’t hesitate to call we’re not that far away.

    Joan

  11. Mike & Loretta

    Pat & Big ED,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you on your loss of Jerry. Please know that he is Sailing with the Lord now. His pain is gone and he will be in everlasting peace!

  12. Lisa K

    Ed and Pat,

    So sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories of Jerry provide you comfort in this difficult time. We send our prayers and thoughts.

    Sincerely,

    Lisa and George

  13. Dear Ed & Pat,
    Sending condolences to both of you in the loss of Jerry. Be at peace in knowing he is now in a better place and no longer suffering.

    Remember all the great times you have all shared and keep them with you to help get you through these tough times.

    Will be praying for you and thinking about you in the coming days!

    Blessings,
    Cindy & Kevin Billet

  14. Marlene

    Dearest Pat and Ed:

    My thoughts and prayers are with you that God will comfort you. I’m sure you must have many wonderful memories of Jerry that I hope will sustain you for now and always. Remember we are your family and when one hurts we all hurt.

    Love and hugs,

    Marlene

  15. Lance & Ilda

    Dear Pat & Ed,

    Ilda & I would like to extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
    Please know that you are in our thoughts at this time of grief.

    Love,
    Lance & Ilda.

  16. Charlotte

    Pat & Ed,

    Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family as this difficult time.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Charlotte

  17. Pat & ED
    OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME, MAY YOU DRAW COMFORT THAT HE IS IN THE ARMS OF THE ANGELS AND PRESENT WITH THE LORD AND PAIN FREE.
    MAY THE MEMORIES OF THE GOOD TIMES EASE THE PAIN OF YOUR LOSS AND FILL YOUR HEATS WITH JOY.
    TAKE CARE
    THE TUCKERS
    ARNOLD & ELIZABETH

  18. The Bears - Princess Barb & Carl

    Pat & Ed,

    Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Remember all the wonderful times you shared with Jerry and hopefully that will make the pain of losing him a little less. Take comfort in knowing he is no longer suffering and is in a much better place.
    Hugs!

  19. The Flying Dutchman

    Ed and Pat,

    My condolences and deepest sympathies to both of you.
    You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.
    – Ecclesiastes

    Mark
    The Flying Dutchman

  20. suemuller

    Ed and Pat:

    I wish we were all still together so that I (we) could all give you a great big huggo…well one sent over the netwaves will have to do for now. I’m so sorry about Jerry, Pat, but aat least you know that he’s resting peacefully. Sending much love to you both aand your family…

    Suefrmnarrowsburg

  21. Linda (Mom of DJ)

    ED and PAT:

    I just found out about this a few minutes ago.

    My surgery yesterday went fine…but I really out of it until this morning.

    Please know that while his body may be gone, nothing can take away the memories of the blessing you both were to him.

    Linda

  22. Princess Susan

    My dear Pat and Ed,
    I can only say how sorry I am. Pat as we sat outside Thursday night in NOLA, I could feel how much you loved Jerry. If I could feel it in that short time we spent together, I’m sure Jerry knew. Just remember he is in a much better place right now. When you have a tough day, lean on Ed and remember you have this family that loves you and will be here for you.
    You both are in my prayers,
    Love,
    Princess Susan

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